Wednesday, January 12, 2011

End 'unrealistic' altruism

Well folks, I must reply that myself, a newly religious Jew, is no longer welcome in the "orthodox" run congregation in my vicinity.  I must report that I was attacked on 3 counts for words I shared with 3 other congregants upon their situation which offended me greatly at both a psychological level and a religious and spiritual level.   I did not complain to the rabbi as I felt it would easily accomplished to discuss the situation directly with the person.  I will not go into detail as to the experiences that I found offensive, save to say that I am confident that Torah Values were violated in each case.   I do believe that if you are going to go under the flag of orthodox Judaism, you need to defend Torah Values.   I am no longer welcome, but guess what, the time I've been away has been constructive and educational.  I must report that the ideals shared for 'removing' me from the community are what I'd report to be "unrealistic altruisim" and for that reason, its a blog entry.   Unrealistic Altruism is when you are interested in a greater good, but your actions or impressions are such that you sacrifice true Values to keep a consistent and smiling congregation.  Unrealistic.
If you want to enforce Torah Values, it involved discussing things at a Torah level.   Not a pet peevish level or a unrealistic level of "I want you to wallow in self hatred" becuase "I don't want to accept your impressions or your judgement".  I have this situation.  Its not going to improve any time soon, but that said, I am quite confident that we have a Creator who will remedy the situation, now or in the years ahead.  Plan a conspiracy and it will be annulled.
If you want peace in a community, its your job to aim for peace and friendship among people.  If a Torah value has been compromised, say so.  If not, say so.

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