Grave Side Day Visit

I went to the Jewish section of the cemetary today.  I must say its nearly the six year yarhzeit of a good friend of my years in the past.  I must say I visited 5 graves.  One I knew and the others I just happened to find the divine spirit guide me to their visitation.   I prayed for intercession and talked to the cemetary plots.   I think thats normal, don't you?  I did not think that the ghost of any of these persons would rise, but that said, their being still exists in some form or another and I bet that their minds are in the world to come and near to our Creator in their lives.  So that said, I actually asked the graves of at least four of them to interceded with a local Person and bring that person back to Religious Torah Ways.  I think it could work.  Maybe they can get our Creator to send an angel.  Truly God knows our problems.  But that said, give the dead some credit.  Thats why we bury people too.  So we can not only remember them but we can talk to their grave side.  This is probably why we dont cremate Jewish souls.  Its not a good way to keep the idea of a grave side visit open and clearly no Jewish person would want to be in heaven without keeping his bones in the ground.  Right?